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I think some people also get confused with coaches "yelling". Just because they are sometimes very loud, doesn't mean they are being negative. In fact in most cases they are probably shouting out instrcutions or encouragement!
If you aren't happy - take the time to approach the coach - not immediately after the game either - and ask to have a chat about a concern you have. If there is a problem, the coach probably isn't even aware of it. Let them know and you will probably find that if there was a problem or misunderstanding, it will all be sorted out.
But I also agree with skull - sometimes the little tackers do need a does of reality from time to time, but care is required on how to do it.