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Anonymous
Years ago

Cambage: DNP-Mental Health

I've been there for sure. Completely life-altering. It torpedoes you. And see, mental illness is inherently self-destructive and perpetuating. My point speaks to actively forcing oneself out of that hole. For example, depression is being stuck in your own head, negative feedback loop, apathy the simplest of things become unbearable. Force yourself out of it. Worked for me. I would have been in the hole for a lot longer if I didn't fight myself to turn up for work on those days. That fight is literally like exorcising your own demon, but it is necessary if you're serious about improving your lot. Because work/responsibility in general help the cause

Anonymous
Years ago

"... but the numbers man.."

Are you sure about that? I can't find the source so take this with a grain of salt, but I recall hearing that the differences in outcomes are not so significant when adjusted for income, which suggests it's an income issue. Although I suppose you can argue that single-parenthood creates more financial pressures, which leads to worse outcomes on average.

Years ago

Well said Isaac.

Years ago

What is wrong with you people, honestly the lack of empathy is only surpassed by most people's lack of intellect and understanding.

Sadly, the opinions of the ignorant and misinformed speak volumes for the miserable state our society has fallen to under the pressures of world wide neoliberalism.

Likely the lead cause of many mental health issues I am willing to bet most posting here have never even entertained in their meagre thoughts.

Can one just please pull one's head out of that orifice for just one moment and take a step back to learn something and educate oneself before we spew all the hatred, just asking for a friend??!

Years ago
chalk another one up for a child being raised by a single mum
If her mother single-handedly raised an Olympian whose major crimes are supposedly being an iffy teammate, taking mental health days and skipping trainings to go to music festivals, shit - give that mother an award.

I can appreciate unrealised potential and abrasive attitudes rub people the wrong way, but 99% of us would be guilty of the first!

Parenting is really hard. Sole-parenting would be brutal. What about instead of highlighting a single mother, the focus of criticism is on an absent father? I don't know her situation - maybe her father died or there were other circumstances. But when you speak of single-parenting as a negative thing, you slam the person who stayed and put in day after day raising their children, which seems harsh to me.
Years ago

Again, we have a long way to go.

Anonymous
Years ago

Mental health issue can effect anyone, BUT just like those who use the “poor childhood experience” for their criminal behaviour, their are many who will pull the “mental health “ card as an excuse for theirs.

Liz has had bad behaviour issues since hitting the hardwood floor and her height looked upon as the next coming of the messiah , and blamed everything and everyone else for them.

So whilst it’s good to get support for true mental health issues, there does come a time when people need to accept they are their own issue and take responsibility for their behaviour.

Anonymous
Years ago

When you selfish and have a victimhood attitude, it has a bad effect on your mental health,

Years ago

So only perfect people deserve the right to help? Ok.

Years ago

"Too much partying and too many recreational supplies"

You'll find that the substance use is often a symptom of the prior poor mental health. A way of coping - not a good one obviously, but with the stigma attached to mental illness, often more inviting than declaring yourself mentally ill. As can be seen above.

Years ago

"My two cents is that yes mental illness is a big issue, but as people we need to be resilient enough to get on with doing our jobs and handle responsibility despite it. And the societally accepted message should be as such. 'It's okay, take as much time as you need, you aren't expected to be able to do anything because you have a mental illness', is shortsighted because it is an excuse straight up; an enabler."

If an employee comes down with a physical illness and is unable to do their job for a length of time, is it enabling them to allow them to take time off work?

This is no different.

As a society, we obviously want to put into practice measures to prevent illness (physical or mental) and injury as much as possible, but when it does occur, people need the ability to take the time to get the treatment and rest they need to come back fit again.

Anonymous
Years ago

This shouldn't be an either/or discussion.

There's some grey here.

Anonymous
Years ago

You'd rather we not cultivate resilience in the people, D?

Years ago

My feelings about Cambage's article, are honestly a little conflicted.
It's a great article, the story needs to be told, and has been.
It's perhaps a little exasperating that it takes somebody like the human headline talking about it, for it to actually get noticed.

Sadly, I can also understand why some might just see this as a continuation of her "Liz the victim" stories, rather than possibly the cause.

But yes, we do have a long way to go.

Years ago

"My two cents is that yes mental illness is a big issue, but as people we need to be resilient enough to get on with doing our jobs and handle responsibility despite it."

And unfortunately, therein you have just displayed that you don't understand mental illness.

Anonymous
Years ago

My two cents is that yes mental illness is a big issue, but as people we need to be resilient enough to get on with doing our jobs and handle responsibility despite it. And the societally accepted message should be as such. 'It's okay, take as much time as you need, you aren't expected to be able to do anything because you have a mental illness', is shortsighted because it is an excuse straight up; an enabler.

Hopefully that's what Reality was trying to say

Years ago

I thought she would be psyched being able to pay off her mortgage again.

Years ago

What Reality meant to say was, He (and all fans of basketball) wish Liz the best in her recovery.

Years ago

Thank you, reality, for proving my point of "we still have a long way to go"

Anonymous
Years ago

mate*

Anonymous
Years ago

Was talking to a mater over the weekend, he plays in the over 35's superrules comp

He mentioned his team has a message group, and a couple of the players had mentioned some mental health struggles on there and they'd been supporting those guys

That was encouraging to hear. 20 years ago that stuff wouldn't have been mentioned.

Years ago

I think it was a good piece. Its good to see more people feeling comfortable talking about these kinds of things. We still have a long way to go.

At the footy yesterday I witnessed some fans who felt the need to mock Jack Steven's recent mental health struggles.

As Liz said in her piece, we're getting there, but we're not there yet.

Years ago

3rd time these 2 teams have met this season with NZ narrowly winning at home in game 1 due to some Vukona/Jackson brilliance and then rolled over Townsville in Townsville again behind the skill of Jackson in game 2 last week. The Breakers are unbeaten since Perth pulled their pants down and smacked their bums in round 1 while the Crocs are 0-8 and desperate to get a W.
They match up well everywhere except inside the paint with Pledger and Hudson getting limited resistance from Allen and Hinder.

Crocs will be better than last week but NZ by 9

 

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